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what is dysphoria?


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What is dysphoria?
Dysphoria, as described by detransitioners, is not simply disliking a body part—it is a visceral, whole-body revulsion that can feel like being wrapped in an “electric fence.” Possible-Skirt (detrans female) explains: “I’m entirely repulsed by my sex characteristics… a buzzing feeling in the parts I dislike… a most unpleasant one.” source [citation:18240566-ff19-455c-994c-9004aee0a57b]

A lifelong, existential mismatch
Several accounts stress that dysphoria is a deep, lifelong sense of being the wrong sex, not a passing discomfort. Nazianzun (detrans male) says: “It’s been a lifelong feeling… my self is fundamentally other than what my mind seems to expect.” source [citation:1994ff60-cbda-40ad-abbd-b4261a91bbcb]

Obsessive and crippling
The feeling can become so intense it blocks daily life. CarmellaKimara (detrans female) calls it “neurosis and compulsion… you can’t stop thinking about a particular thing that needs to be changed NOW.” source [citation:1ad01c82-5a87-483a-b646-cf8929a63f4f] trialeterror adds that the mere existence of her breasts made her “feel sick to my stomach… preventing you from living a regular life.” source [citation:32d1449a-adca-42a1-b13f-29cebfc45d63]

Not the same as ordinary body image worries
Detransitioners emphasize that dysphoria is not comparable to everyday insecurities. proof_of_ghosts clarifies: “Dysphoria means a kind of existential despair and acute rejection of self… feeling like an unacceptable human being.” source [citation:3910cc2f-9f69-483e-93d4-3ecd55898889]

In short, dysphoria is an overwhelming, lifelong, and often physically painful rejection of one’s sexed body that can dominate every waking moment.

The truth is that gender non-conformity will set us all free!

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General Terms

Understanding the fundamental concepts

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What is a woman?

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What is gender?

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What is gender non-conformity (GNC)?

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What is desisting?

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Are intersex people trans?

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What is gender fluidity?

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What does AFAB/AMAB mean?

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What is a TERF?

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What is deadnaming?

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What is misgendering?

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What is a cisgender person?

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What is biological sex?

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What is social transition vs medical transition?

The Medical Reality

Health, procedures, and biological truths

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Can I undo phalloplasty?

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Can I undo vaginoplasty?

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Should everyone else have to pay for transgender surgeries?

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Should I get facial reconstruction surgery?

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What is the science behind gender affirming care?

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Does unrestricted access to hormones and surgeries provide good outcomes?

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What are puberty blockers and are they reversible?

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What happened to the light in my eyes?

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What are the long-term effects of cross-sex hormones?

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What are the WPATH Standards of Care?

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Are the WPATH Standards of Care based on science?

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What is the Dutch Protocol?

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What is rapid-onset gender dysphoria (ROGD)?

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What are the regret rates for gender surgeries?

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What is gender exploratory therapy?

Society & Culture

How gender beleif systems affects us all

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What are the transition rates for men vs women?

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Why is the trans suicide rate so high?

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Is being trans a mental illness?

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Is the trans suicide rate mis-represented?

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What does it mean to be gender critical?

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Do suicides based on regret get blamed on social acceptance?

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How does the trans community use mantras?

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Does the trans community encourage suicide?

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Does society believe that gender is a social construct?

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Does gender ideology affect society?

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Are there male brains and female brains?

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Where did the term gender come from?

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How is gender ideology at odds with homosexual identities?

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How is gender ideology at odds with heterosexual identities?

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Does transgender ideology contradict itself?

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Why are so many people identifying as trans or non-binary now? Is it a trend?

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Is it common for friends of trans people to become trans too?

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What is the bathroom debate about?

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What are trans rights vs women's rights conflicts?

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What is the medicalization of gender non-conforming children?

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What is the history of trans activism?

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Psychology & Identity

Understanding the mental and emotional aspects

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The Detransition Journey

Healing, support, and finding your way back

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